Male friendships are truly a special type of relationship. They often come with a certain level of understanding, comfort, and even competition that is unique to the male experience. And members of a man’s crew come from all over\u2014they can join by virtue of having attended high school together or playing on the same intramural soccer team. So what keeps it all together? Enter the Bro Code concept, an unwritten set of rules that serve as the foundation for any longstanding and successful male friendship. Of course, codes are often specific to each group, but generally, they’re comprised of universal standards meant to ensure trust between buddies and mutual respect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The importance of male friendships really can’t be overstated. But how do you create and uphold the Bro Code? And why is it so essential for men to foster relationships with their buddies?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It’s part of the Bro Code to be there through thick and thin. When you’re craving quality time with the bros, bust out your adventure book to have an epic night out! Adventures From Scratch: Friends Edition<\/u><\/em><\/a> is bursting with more than 50 unique scratch-off challenges to keep you and the bros bonding. Whether you want to create, cook, or explore something, we’ve got you covered. And you can save your memories in the book to look back on! Round up your crew, pick an adventure, and get ready to have an awesome time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n While there has always been an unwritten set of rules between bromances, “Bro Code” became a viral hit because of the hit New York-based TV show\u00a0How I Met Your Mother<\/em>. Barney Stinson, played by Neil Patrick Harris, was a key character on the show and believed in a set of rules he compiled into what is known as the Bro Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In its most basic form, it’s a code of conduct between two men. Like\u00a0Girl Code<\/a>, Bro Code covers a range of behaviors, ranging from how you interact with strangers to how you chill with your best bros. It’s a guide on how to have and maintain relationships with male friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In the modern world, men\u2019s friendships are incredibly important but can be challenging to maintain. With work and family obligations, making time for male bonding activities or just regular check-ins can be hard. The Bro Code is meant to help ensure that all parties involved don\u2019t take each other for granted while also providing them with expectations and guidelines they should follow. Keep the code in mind, and you should be able to keep your pals for life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Since the Bro Code is a way of life that defines men’s friendships and relationships with their peers, you need to at least know the most important ones. Here are some of the unwritten rules of the Bro Code you can’t forget:<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is the most important rule of the Bro Code playbook. Call it the first amendment of being a guy, if you will. Your bros come before any girl. Your friends will always be there for you, but a girl might not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If your bro has ever dated a girl, she is off-limits to you. There are plenty of other women there, and you don’t want to risk ruining your friendship over your pal\u2019s ex-girlfriend. She\u2019s an ex for a reason!<\/p>\n\n\n\n As a wingman, it’s your job to help your bro get with a girl. This means you should be willing to talk him up, make him look good, and step in if things start to go wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When it comes to talking about your best friend, you should always keep it positive. Don’t be the guy spreading rumors or talking behind your friend’s back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When you go out to eat with your bros, split the bill equally. Tools like Venmo and Zelle have made going out to eat with friends easier than ever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If your bro needs help, whether it’s moving or fixing his car, you should be willing to lend a hand. This is what friendship is all about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It should go without saying that dating your friend’s family is completely off-limits. Not only will it likely ruin your friendship, but it could also create an awkward family dynamic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In an all-too-digital world, we often forget to pick up the phone and give our best pals a call. We get it; you’re a bro on the go. However, talking on the phone is a meaningful way to stay connected and show your friend that you care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Whether at the bar or a party, you should always be aware of your bro’s girlfriend. Keep a brotherly eye out for her to make sure she’s safe!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Even if you want to go home with someone you met at the club, ensure your bro has a way to get home. Leaving him hanging to chase after a date isn’t cool and could damage your friendship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes, tattoos sound really great when we’ve been drinking, but they’re permanent and can be a bad idea.\u00a0If your bro is thinking of getting a girl’s name tattooed after a long night of partying, talk him out of it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n We all have that one friend who has a tendency to make questionable decisions when under the influence. It’s up to you as his friend to make sure he doesn’t do anything he’d regret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n No matter what life throws at your friend, be the ultimate bro, and always be there to support him. That means riding with him on the highs of a new relationship or building him back up when he’s ready to date after a divorce<\/a>. Having someone you can count on is priceless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Take this literally or metaphorically, but never take a cheap shot at your bro. This means no physical violence down under and also no emotional attacks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If your friend is feeling low, do whatever you can to lift his spirits. Sometimes, giving him a bit of space to process his emotions is the best thing you can do, but if he’s been down a long time, don’t be shy about offering your support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is never an easy conversation to have, but if you think your bro’s partner is cheating on him, it’s best to tell him what you know. That way, he can make an informed decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s important to respect each other’s boundaries and privacy. Don’t overstep the mark by intruding into his personal life without permission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n At the end of the day, your loyalty is to your friend. Unless he’s in a dangerous situation, never give away his whereabouts to a third party.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes, competing against your best friend can bring out the best in you both. Just make sure to keep it friendly, and remember that winning isn’t everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Whether he’s forgotten his wallet or can’t afford another round, it’s nice when you can help a friend out. Buying him a beer here and there goes a long way in showing your support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Our bros become our family, and they will be honorary uncles when you have kids. It’s important to set good examples for your children from their earliest years by surrounding them with positive male role models.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ah, the iconic fist bump. The casual greeting has quite the significance in the bro world. Never reject a fist bump!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pop some popcorn, order delivery, and settle in for a night of video games. Nothing says friendship like a night of virtual battles and trash-talking. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Know when it’s time to take his phone away from him. He might not be happy in the moment, but he’ll surely thank you in the morning when all he has is a hangover instead of a whole new set of problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Whether he’s going through a lot of stress or has just had too many, step up when you need to. Help your bro make the right decision by being his voice of reason. Remind him that there are consequences for every action and that getting into trouble isn’t worth it in the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This one’s for the safety of both your friend and his partner. It’s better to be prepared than sorry when it comes to matters of protection. You don\u2019t want to be an uncle before your time!<\/p>\n\n\n\n It takes a truly strong man to shed tears in front of another person, so never judge your friend if he breaks down in front of you. Instead, be there for him, and let him know it’s okay to be vulnerable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We all make mistakes and need someone to call us out on our bad behavior. Your bro should be the person who holds you accountable and encourages you to do better when it matters most.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When you go out together, set up a code word or phrase that signals trouble. That way, if one of you gets into an awkward situation, the other can come to the rescue without having to explain everything right away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It doesn’t matter if it’s his or his girlfriend’s\u2014it’s important to show up and show your support. Send a card, pick up a gift<\/a>, or just text and wish them the best on their special day. Doing so will go a long way in showing your appreciation for them as part of your friend group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You may be envious of his success, but don’t let it get in the way of your friendship. Instead, be happy for him, and offer advice on how to handle the changes that are happening in his life. After all, relationships are never easy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Whether it’s about a new project or a potential date, give your honest opinion when asked. Of course, this doesn’t mean you have to be brutally honest. Just be sure to provide insight and feedback that could help him make the best decisions for himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nobody likes a heated argument, especially between two bros! If things start getting too heated, take a step back, and try to find some common ground. This will help both of you move on quickly and peacefully.<\/p>\n\n\n\n No matter what, always have each other’s backs. Whether it’s defending a silly opinion or backing up a wild story, being there for one another is essential in any friendship. You can work out the details of that big fish story later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes, all your bro needs is a reminder that you’re still thinking about him. Send a random text to see how he’s doing. Even the smallest gesture can make all the difference in his day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s no secret that men’s cars are their babies. If you borrow it, make sure to return it in the same condition. And for goodness’ sake, don’t forget to fill up the gas tank!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Honesty is the best policy, especially when it comes to fashion. If he’s sporting a questionable look, don’t be afraid to tell him\u2014just do so in a constructive way. You don’t want him walking around looking like an idiot! <\/p>\n\n\n\n Breakups can be hard, so make sure you’re there for your friend when he needs you most. Offer to listen if he wants to talk. Then turn up the playlist, and offer to take him out for a night on the town once in a while. This will help lift his spirits during the tough times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You don’t have to like her, but you do have to be respectful when she’s around. After all, your friend chose her, so show her the same respect you would any other person in his life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Last but far from least is to never, ever use the urinal right next to someone. It’s not just rude; it’s uncomfortable and a cardinal sin of the Bro Code. Leave at least one buffer stall between you and your friend. Heaven forbid you make eye contact in this scenario.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s important to remember that the Bro Code is a set of unwritten rules, and while popular culture tells us these rules should generally be followed, there may be times when it’s okay to bend or break the rules.\u00a0However, if you choose to ignore this code of conduct entirely, ensure you’re prepared for any consequences that may arise from your actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Breaking Bro Code may be acceptable in situations like these:<\/p>\n\n\n\n On the other hand, breaking the Bro Code rules in situations like these is unacceptable:<\/p>\n\n\n\n In certain situations, breaking Bro Code can be excused, but it’s important to remember that respect and loyalty are the cornerstones of any strong friendship. So, if in doubt, err on the side of caution, and adhere to the code. Doing so will help safeguard your friendship for years to come.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Following the Bro Code is all about respecting one another and building strong relationships. It’s important to keep in mind that it’s not a hard and fast rulebook but rather a set of guidelines meant to help foster solid friendships. So if you find yourself in a tricky situation, take some time to think before you act. By doing so, you can be sure that the bonds between you and your bros will last.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Make time for guys’ night<\/a>! Or how about a weekend? Nothing says guys’ weekend like a road trip. So, plan the\u00a0perfect road trip with your friends<\/a>! Or, spend a night out on the town\u00a0bar hopping<\/a>\u00a0in your attempts to find\u00a0new dates. However you spend your time, remember to keep nurturing those male friendships. There’s nothing like them!<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u200b\u200bThe number one rule of the Bro Code<\/a> is to never let a woman come between your friendship. The adventures with your bro<\/a> are far more important\u00a0than any romantic entanglement.<\/p> <\/div> The full Bro Code<\/a> changes depending on the crew. Generally, they include being a wingman for your bros, remaining loyal to them, and never letting a woman come between you.<\/p> <\/div> The Bro Code<\/a> rules include making time for game night (our adventure book<\/a> has some ideas!), keeping him from drunk texting his ex, and always showing up when he needs help with something.<\/p> <\/div> The main violations of the Bro Code<\/a> include leaving your pal at the bar without a ride, letting a woman come between you, not showing up for him, and taking advantage of a fellow bro.\u00a0<\/p> <\/div> Only break the Bro Code<\/a> in situations like when a friend is in danger, relationships are on the line, or the outcome will be positive. Treat bros well to keep the adventures<\/a> coming!<\/p> <\/div> <\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Do you respect the Bro Code? Are you sure? Maybe it’s time to brush up on the rules, just in case. We’ll tell you the most important ones.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":12676,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[283],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\n\n\n\nNailing Down the Bro Code<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
40 Unwritten Rules of the Bro Code<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. Bros before hoes.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
2. Never date your bro’s ex.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. Remember your wingman duties.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
4. No gossiping.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
5. Split the bill equally.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
6. Help a bro out.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
7. Don’t date your bro’s sister.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
8. Give him a call.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
9. Look out for his girlfriend when he’s not around.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
10. Never leave a bro without a ride.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
11. Don’t let him get a girl’s name tattooed on his chest.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
12. Don’t let him do something (too) stupid.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
13. Be there for the good and bad times.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
14. Never hit him below the belt.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
15. Pick him up when he’s down.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
16. If you think his partner is cheating on him, tell him.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
17. Respect each other’s boundaries.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
18. If his girlfriend calls you and asks where he is, you don’t know.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
19. Don’t be afraid of healthy competition.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
20. If cash is tight, pitch in for his beer.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
21. Your bros become honorary uncles to your kid.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
22. Never leave a fist bump hanging.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
23. Make time for game night.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
24. Don’t let him drunk call his ex-girlfriend.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
25. Talk him out of all bad decisions.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
26. Always lend a condom.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
27. Don’t judge him if he cries.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
28. Hold each other accountable.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
29. Get your story straight.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
30. Never forget birthdays.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
31. Don’t be jealous if his relationship progresses faster than yours.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
32. Give honest feedback when asked.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
33. End arguments quickly and peacefully.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
34. Back each other up.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
35. Check on him from time to time.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
36. Respect his car.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
37. Tell him when his outfit looks horrible.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
38. Be there for him during the ugly breakups.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
39. Be nice to his girl.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
40. Always leave a buffer stall.<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
When to Break Bro Code<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\nClosing Thoughts<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\nFrequently Asked Questions<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n